Deanooooo
4:20 Fri Aug 31
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I am sure anyone would change their moral highground if their ex missus was and is being a cunt and the circumstances of the sudden split were all to do with this influx of cash.
You can pretend you wouldn't want to touch their inheritance but in the above situation its the one thing that would fuck her off the most.
If it was a friendly/amicable split its a different story or if their are kids involved.
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On The Ball
4:11 Fri Aug 31
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109 posts and we've all forgotten something pretty important.
Link to the step-daughter?
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worm
4:07 Fri Aug 31
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Don't go after the money.
If she's a cunt, she'll still be a cunt with the money and it wont bring her happiness.
Revel in that.
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White Pony
3:47 Fri Aug 31
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I wouldn't try to grab half her inheritance as it's nowt to do with you.
Maybe just stride out on your own and pay your own way in life.
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boltkunt
3:47 Fri Aug 31
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bruuuno 3:29 Fri Aug 31
I think marriage is becoming less important now. I to be honest got married more so for the wife. Don't get me wrong the day was the best day of my life but we begrudged it due to the amount of money which could have gone towards an deposit for a house.
IT does change things a lot, whoever says it doesn't is a liar.
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boltkunt
3:39 Fri Aug 31
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JustAFatKevinDavies 2:52 Fri Aug 31
I've changed a hell of a lot , Dzeko son.
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Beat Freak
3:30 Fri Aug 31
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Personally if she inherited money from her family I wouldn't stake a claim. Although, I think, if your wife can prove this money wasn't or isn't used as a source of income for day to day living you may not be entitled to it anyway.
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bruuuno
3:29 Fri Aug 31
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why the fuck do people get married? Mental
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JustAFatKevinDavies
2:52 Fri Aug 31
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quite enjoying watching bolty taking the moral highground here I must say.
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boltkunt
2:30 Fri Aug 31
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I love the comments if it were a woman she'd go after it so do it etc etc.
That doesn't make it fucking right, the money has nothing to do with him and massively cuntish if he attempts to take that money.
IF he paid rent mortgage bills etc that's his choice, he's a grown man for fuck sake.
If peoples views are really what's been posted then then the world is full of fucking idiots.
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bovril
2:16 Fri Aug 31
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You can bet your life she would claim it off you. Don't ever trust wamin... Go Mygtow
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RichyP
1:46 Fri Aug 31
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My wife is an only child and would stand to inherit a decent sum. If we divorced it would never enter my mind to go after half of it because her parents money has got fuck all to do with me. Maybe she would go after half of it if the roles were reversed, who knows, but 2 wrongs don't make a right.
Personally I would feel that I was profiteering out of someone dying and I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that. My conscience and self respect are worth more to me than going after half of the inheritance of someone that clearly doesn't like me that much any more no matter what the back story.
What I would push for is to have 50% of it (my share legally) put into a trust for our daughter to be accessed when she turns 18 or 21. That would make me more than happy and would ensure that it doesn't all get spunked up the wall.
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goose
12:38 Fri Aug 31
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is he not entitle to a cut of her future income as well?
anyway, it's only money and she sounds like a complete cunt so you are better off.
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On The Ball
12:21 Fri Aug 31
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It's not important here - he has no pension.
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Mike Oxsaw
12:18 Fri Aug 31
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Northern Sold 11:35 Fri Aug 31
That's a quite important issue - since the change in the law a few years ago, my ex- is absolutely convinced she's entitled to half my total pension (including that since we separated, as well as that accrued before we met) on account of "her sacrifices during the marriage let me become who I am today").
She keeps badgering the kids to find out "how well I'm doing". They tell her in no uncertain terms to just fuck off on the matter.
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LeroysBoots
11:48 Fri Aug 31
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joe royal 11:46 Fri Aug 31
You've obviously not seen the £50 one tattooed on her arse that we've all come in to !
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joe royal
11:46 Fri Aug 31
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My girlfriend has a 20 pound note tattooed on her pussy so I can come into money.
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Side of Ham
11:44 Fri Aug 31
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So reading on here there are 3 options on what will happen.....even though that's not what he asked for advice on.
1. Be the bigger man and walk away even though it sounds like you could do with a cash boost and have been dumped because the wife has had that cash boost.
2. Be the little man go for half the dosh she inherited but you'll be an utter cunt in doing so but a financially wealthier one.
3. Be the very little man who absolutely got so wound up at how the court sides with the woman on everything and end up not getting any of the dosh that you become a totally bitter and twisted fucker on life in general.
All of the above assume there will be very little friendship after her actions to walk out on a 16 year relationship because she came into some money.
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11:43 Fri Aug 31
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Women have not always held the upper hand, under English Law in the past, when considering divorces. Indeed in the past the law was loaded against them. Things have changed and women have rights now whereby they are equal partners and thus divorce settlements are creating female millionaires in the UK.
It appears from the OP that the wife ( though as has been pointed out the authenticity is open to doubt ) is hiding a large windfall and she can only be doing this because of fear of losing some of it as part of a divorce settlement. Settlements though do not mean that the assets are shared 50/50 and Paul McCartney is an example where Heather Mills received millions of pounds but nowhere near fifty percent of his assets.
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LeroysBoots
11:41 Fri Aug 31
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Having been through this sort of situation twice I know where you are at.
First time I gave up everything despite my solicitor saying otherwise, I gave it all to my ex as she was/is the other of my kids and I didn't want my kids to suffer financially, so she got the house all the savings and all the contents. I started again at 38 with zero.
2nd marriage I paid all the bills, the mortgage ( That was hers admittedly ), everything, she kept her salary for "pocket money"
When her parents both died she got their house, the big sum of money that came with it. She sold the house and paid the mortgage off. I then realised that I was free to leave as she was a fucking mentalist !...so I did..and started again at 51...with nothing....never got a penny from her.
It's tough when you are sitting there thinking where do you go next, what do you do, you just have to get on with it and try to rebuild your life as best as you can
Good luck
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suffering iron
11:36 Fri Aug 31
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I believe that when my Mum and Dad split up my granddad changed his will stipulating that my mum would be solely entitled to whatever she ends up with.
Not that my old man would have wanted any as he's moved on but just an example that you can/should have it written in.
I think subsequently he changed it so that his 6 kids get an equal sharing and took all in laws out so it would just be a fair 6 way split... not sure if that would affect any further divorces/splits etc mind you.
Marriage ay, people wonder why I'm not a fan!
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